高學歷已婚婦女的婆媳關係調適之研究

本研究旨在探討高學歷已婚婦女的婆媳關係調適，主要目的有三: 一、瞭解高學歷已婚婦女的婆媳關係調適，以及婆媳間存在哪些觀點差異。二、瞭解原生家庭經驗對高學歷已婚婦女的婆媳關係調適所形成的影響。三、經過調適，高學歷已婚婦女本身的想法和行為形成的改變，以及無法改變之處。本研究採質化深度訪談的方式進行，輔以半結構式的訪談大綱蒐集本研究所需的資料。訪談對象由研究者的朋友和同事推薦、自薦符合條件的對象，分別有教師3位、公務員1位、護理師1位、上班族1位，共計有6位，婚齡從1.5年至5年，年齡介於30~34歲之間。透過六位高學歷已婚婦女生命故事的描述，再進行研究結果的討論，根據研究發現，歸納出結論如下: 一、高學歷已婚婦女和婆婆的觀點差異，主要呈現在長幼有序、男尊女卑、世代間的代溝、教養方式四項，和日常生活密切相關。二、高學歷已婚婦女擁有豐富的資源網絡，因此可以使用多種調適作法改善婆媳關係。三、原生家庭對高學歷已婚婦女的影響甚大，對女兒的培育較為用心，婚後對女兒的支持也多四、調適過後，價值觀變更不多，難以適應的部分仍在努力調適。最後，根據本研究結果，針對高學歷已婚婦女、家庭教育和成人教育等單位，以及未來相關研究等方面提出建議。

關鍵字

高學歷已婚婦女；調適；婆媳關係

並列摘要

This research aimed to discuss the adjusting between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law of highly-educated married women.The three purposes of reasearch are as follows: 1. To investigate the adjusting between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law of highly-educated married women.And the differences of opinion between mother-in- law and daughter-in-law. 2. To investiagate the effects of highly-educated married women’s family-of-origin experiences on the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship. 3. After adjusting, the changes and the reservations of thaughts and behaviors. This research was employed the in-depth interview approach. Qualified interviewees were recommended by colleagues and friends.And some of them introduced themselves.There were 6 interviewees, respectively 3 teachers, a nurse, a civil servant and an office worker. Marriageable ages were from 1.5 years to 5 years. Their ages ranged from 30 to 34 years old. Through description of six highly-educated married women’s life stories,and then study and discuss the results. According to the research findings, conclusions were made respectively as follows: 1. The differences of opinion between mother-in- law and daughter-in-law are mainly appeared on pecking order, patriarchy, generation gap and parenting style, and are closely linked to daily life. 2. Highly-educated married women have rich resources, so they can use a variety of practices to improve the mothers-in law and daughters-in law relationship. 3. Original family has influenced high-educated married women much.They fostered their daughters more carefully. After daughter married, original family still continue to care for and support. 4. After adjusting, the values of highly-educated married women are not changed much. And they still try hard to adjust the difficult situations. Based on the conclusions above, suggestions are made to the highly-educated married women, family education units, adult education units and future researchers for future references.