In this paper, with a special reference to Bernard Lonergan's thought, I attempt to approach the question of the religious "other" within our current pluralistic context, focusing more on the cognitive healing role of the human agent and the cognitive bias problem of relating to "the other." There is no attempt to articulate religious doctrines but, instead, I point to the possibility of a common context for spiritual security, a methodology of collaboration that is structurally rooted in our common human subjectivity and that will serve as a common basis for mediating authentic engagement in and between all traditions. Especially I try to point to the solution discovered by Lonergan in 1965.