Women with disabilities face many difficulties in enjoying and exercising autonomy. This is not only the status quo of disabled women in China, but also the common experience of disabled women in the world. Women with disabilities are oppressed by both gender discrimination and ableism, and have not received enough attention in feminist movement and disability rights movement. Discrimination against women with disabilities is particularly severe in areas such as sex, family and employment. Anti-subordination advocates changing the subordination status of the disabled in the society so that the disabled are respected as the able-bodied, while the anti-elimination affirms the value of the lives of the disabled. Anti-subordination and anti-elimination enrich the theory of the rights of the disabled and play a positive role in changing the disadvantaged status of disabled women. However, there is a value conflict between anti-elimination and the protection of children's interests. How to find a balance between them is a problem to be studied in the future.