- 學位論文
從女兒到已婚女性“自我”的歸屬感失落之初探
A Preliminary Study on the Loss of the Belonging of “Self” from Daughter to Married Women
摘要
本研究的研究目是為瞭解女性從女兒角色到已婚女性過程中，原生家庭的歸屬感出現變化對自我認同變化的影響。研究係以質性訪談方法進行，於初步訪談9位受訪對象後符合研究條件者進入焦點團體訪談共5位。研究結果如下： 女性在婚後面對原生家庭歸屬感失落與婆家認同的困難關係間擺盪，最後發展出尋找自我歸屬感的脈絡，確認自我的存在意義與重建對家的歸屬感： 1.在原生家庭的歸屬慢慢的出現變化，個體試著將對家的歸屬轉移到婚後新的家庭。2.女性婚後起初會在與原生家庭關係及與婆家關係間擺盪，當婆家無法讓其建立起對家的歸屬感，便會縮小到與伴侶的關係上自組家庭。3.透過與先生之間的建立穩定安全、親密的依附關係，將對家的歸屬從原生家庭慢慢移轉到與先生自組的家庭而讓自己安放於此。4.若與先生的關係不穩定，個體會將歸屬再次轉移到子女身上，將自己與子女重新設定為家的群體。5.若能與先生建立安全穩定的歸屬感家庭，之後子女也納進歸屬範圍，而建立起有先生與子女對家的歸屬關係，個體也在此時將自己安身立命於此新建立的家。對實務工作者建議：1.協助整理女性離家失落議題。2.協助女性理解重心轉移、歸屬轉移的必然的現象。3.將歸屬的重心轉移到先生及(或)小孩與對自我需求身上，使其在關係中不再飄盪不安，找到心中的歸屬感。
並列摘要
The purpose of this study is to understand the impact of changes in the sense of identity of native families on the change of self in the process of women’s transition from daughter roles to married women. The study was carried out by qualitative interview method. After a preliminary interview of 9 persons , 5 participants who met the requirements of the study entered the focus group interview. The results of the study are as follows: After marriage, women oscillate between the loss of their original family's sense of belonging and the difficult relationship that their in-laws identify with, and finally developed a search for a sense of self-belonging, to confirm the existence of the meaning of self and rebuild the sense of belonging to the family: (1) The sense of belonging in the original family slowly changes, and the individual tries to transfer the belonging of the family to the new family after marriage, (2) In the early stage of marriage, women’s sense of belonging will oscillate between their original family relationship and their in-laws' relationship. When the in-laws cannot allow them to establish a sense of belonging to the family, their sense of belonging will be reduced to their spouse who form their own family, (3) Through the establishment of a stable, safe, and intimate attachment relationship with the husband, the belongingness to the family will be slowly transferred from the original family to the family with the husband and make oneself feel at ease, (4) If the relationship with the husband is unstable, the individual will transfer the belongingness to their children again, resetting herself and her children as a family group, (5) If she can establish a safe and stable family with her husband, then the children will be included in the scope of belonging, and the individual will also settle in this newly established home at this time . Suggestions to practitioners: (1) Assist women in sorting out the lost issues of leaving their original families, (2) It is inevitable to help women understand the movement of belongingness, (3) Transfer the belongingness to the family to the relationship with the husband and/or children, and the self-needs, so that they will no longer wander in the relationship and find her the belongingness.