婚暴婦女接受法院離婚調解歷程探究：以南投地區為例

本研究為瞭解婚暴婦女接受法院離婚調解過程之經驗、感受、回應，及後續生活狀況，以質性研究深度訪談九位曾有婚暴經驗進入離婚調解案件之婦女，透過資料分析，呈現婦女從離婚調解前婚暴經驗與身心狀態、離婚調解歷程，至調解結束後婦女生活樣貌，以及當事人雙方執行調解協議情形，並從婦女觀點探討服務回應及相關政策建議。研究發現，婚暴經驗不僅影響離婚解過程，更影響離婚後子女探視、撫養費議題。經歸納分析九對婚暴夫妻的離婚調解過程，依據「婦女離婚堅持度」、及先生「權力、控制」程度不同可分為為三大類型，當婦女堅持離婚時，依據先生「權力、控制」程度不同，導致調解結果「平和落幕」或是「危機衝突」。雖然婦女離婚態度堅決，由於先生覺知聲音被聽到或其離婚條件被接受，感受到擁有主導權力，同意達成調解離婚而平和落幕；反之，當先生低頭要求復合，討價還價的方式未獲婦女退讓回應，由於不甘心、認為關係尚未結束或基於挽回婚姻的期待，先生私下採取激烈的脅迫行為，導致婦女人身安全疑慮，面臨分手暴力威脅。第三類婦女未堅持離婚態度的「且戰且走型」，基於先生承諾、婦女讓步、調委見證的前提下，當先生未能達成在調解室的承諾戒除惡習，失去爭執立場，面對婦女求去，最終先生亦同意協議離婚，針對子女監護探視等議題進行討論。婦女對離婚調解各有其正、負向評價，並對調解制度提出回應。據此，本研究提出討論：調解前資訊充分告知議題、婚暴動力影響調解過程與安全、婚暴經驗中複雜危險因子、婚暴婦女眼中利弊兼具的調解制度、調解過程的身心安全議題、調解過程比結果更重要、離婚調解後的生活、新住民的調解議題。根據上述議題，本研究針對婦女及非正式資源、司法單位、相關家暴防治網絡單位提出建議。

關鍵字

離婚調解；受暴婦女

並列摘要

The aims of this study are to collect and analyze the experiences of battered women’s divorce mediation, including their feeling and responds to the divorce mediation, and to provide practical experiences and responses for battered women and the government. The study adopted qualitative research methods to interview 9 battered women , and found out that divorce mediation process could be divided into 3 types: ‘peaceful’ ‘high risk’ and ‘wait & see’. When women make up their mind to end the marriage, they are in danger of separation assault, ’cause the husbands want to recover the relationship. If the husbands feel sense of power & control, they tend to divorce agreement. Otherwise, they become aggressive & take vengeance. The battered women have mixed feelings about divorce mediation, such as mediators are nice & warm, care about women’s safety & feeling, cool down men’s anger…etc. In addition, they complain about mediators’ attitude, mediating to go home, safety issues, wasting time…etc. Finally, understanding how battered women respond to divorce mediation , our findings and suggestions of divorce mediation are as follows: 1.For the court: (1)Danger screening and information meeting before mediation are very important, cause safety is the best policy. (2) The courts should provide safe enviroment & safe mediation rules and regulaion for victims, and enhance the domestic violence education for mediators. (3) The mass communication of mediation is highly recommended. 2.For the battered women and their informal resources: (1) Support from informal resources can reduce the impact of domestic violence for battered women. In addition to psychological and spiritual supports from families, friends. (2)Battered women should pay more attention with separation assault, and report their fear to the court. (3) Do not hesitate to seek help . 3. For the domestic violence protection network Key words：Divorce Mediation, The Battered Women