已婚女性在婚姻中的自我轉變－一位女性的觀點

Self-Perception and It's Change of a Married Female: A Female's Perspective

邱珍琬(Jane Chiu)

《臺中教育大學學報：人文藝術類》 24卷1期 (2010/06) Pp. 25-47

https://doi.org/10.7037/JNTUHA.201006.0025

摘要

本研究從一位已婚女性高階主管的故事敘說中去探討女性在婚姻中的自我定位與挑戰，她從一位討厭自己、希望掙脫出原生家庭束縛的女性，到維持傳統卻屢遭阻難、要做自己卻受許多牽制的衝突，最後願意調適也堅持自己，不再做委屈的小女人的過程。她也在婚姻中看到自己浪漫幻想的破滅，丈夫企圖掌控的權力，婆家介入干涉的強勢，自己在委屈折衝中學會調適自己、也不失自己的尊嚴與價值，婚姻對她而言是一種結構性的必須，因為主角是孩子。對她來說，身為母親的角色以及為孩子保持一個完整的家就是最重要的，可以看出她依然被傳統女性刻板印象所綑綁，卻努力想要爭取真正的獨立自主。

關鍵字

已婚女性 ； 自我 ； 原生家庭

並列摘要

This study is an attempt to explore a married female supervisor's self identity and challenges in the marriage via narrative approach. The results show that the participant perceives herself transforming from a self-hatred person who tried to escape from her family of origin, to a tradition-bond but striving for being a genuine self. To her, marriage is a ”necessary construct” for children, not a hub of love. Being a mother and keeping an intact family for her children are the priority. She is still bound by traditional female stereotype but fighting her way for autonomy.

並列關鍵字

Married Female ； Self ； Family-of-Origin