The present study is designed to examine how preschool children establish their goals as well as their preferred strategies used in interpersonal conflicts. Forty-one preschool boys and forty-one girls participated in an interview where ten hypothetical conflict situations were introduced. Their verbal responses were coded and analyzed in Goals and Strategies children would use in the situation. The results did not show statistically significant differences in setting goals between genders. However, it revealed significant gender differences in strategies chosen for the conflict situations. Boys reported using behaviorally assertive strategies more frequently while girls reported they using inviting, seeking for help and verbally assertive strategies. The implications from developmental perspective are discussed.