This study proposes the narrative of four male homosexuals who lives under the unique sex culture in China, and explores how their lives and the pressures they feel affects each other. Four themes or stages are drawn from the narrative: first recognition of their homosexual tendency; clarification of their homosexual tendency; acceptance of their homosexual identity; planning of the future. The pressures and sources in the four stages are different, and the strategies used also varied. Longitudinal research will be performed in the future to further explore the development of sex culture recognition.