"Flow" is the mental state of operation in which a person performing an activity is fully immersed in a feeling of energized focus. This article focuses on " flow" to explore the golf leisure behavior, and "skills", "challenge" how to form each other. And to analyze the conditions of the formation of " flow" in the "message feedback" and "cognitive conditions" of the control theory, and then how to improve the feeling of " flow" in the golf leisure behavior and avoid falling into the "indifference" and "boredom" "Anxiety" in the plight.