From the perspective of the police’s wife, this research is to explore what are the impact of the police occupation to the marriage relation from the police officers’ wife point of view. Base on the wife’s interviews of their marriage, a story of nonstop struggle and effort, tears and depression are revealed. The researchers used a semi-structured in-depth interview method to interview eight police officers and reflected on their marriage from the dialogue process of the interview. Through the process of reviewing and re-structured all the interviews and researcher’s own marriage, a new perspective of the marriage has shown from the passed frustration experiences and conflicts, and start to work with husband in the marriage for a brighter future.