- 學位論文
婚姻暴力離異家庭父母共親職之研究
Examination on Co-parenting between divorced parents with history of marital violence
摘要
本研究旨在探討婚姻暴力離異父母共親職的協調過程與結果，期許能提供一個較為完整與前瞻的研究視野，作為實務工作推行之參考。本研究以深度訪談法萃取七位父親或母親與前配偶共親職的歷程，研究結果如下： 一、共親職樣貌：共親職是動態的過程，七位受訪者有合作類型、有合作與抵制並行的混合類型，以及水火不容的抵制類型。婚暴離異父母共親職並非偶然，而是有一個契機、迫不得已的現況、個人信念轉念、為孩子著想的心意，每個人的起始點與歷程皆不同，正向改變幅度也因人而異，對於成為父母，他們都還在學習。 二、影響父母共親職因素：包含生命經驗、法律離婚到心理分離（婚姻史）、共親職態度與信念、支持系統彼此是相依相存的，成為婚暴離異父母面對人生危機時的能量與幫手。 三、為了孩子，攜手共親職：婚暴是否成為離異父母的阻礙是在於如何解讀、調適與應對，除了父母各自努力練習與精進，婚暴離異父母共親職是需要網絡合作，每個人都在崗位上出點力，那就能幫助受訪者順水推舟地前進。 最後，研究者依據本研究之結果提出本研究的限制與建議。
並列摘要
The purpose of this study is to examine the coordination process and results of co-parenting between divorced parents with a history of marital violence, with the aim to provide a more comprehensive and prospective research insight to serve as a reference for future practice. Through in-depth interviews, the co-parenting experiences of seven parents with their former spouses were gathered. The results are as follows: 1.The portrait of co-parenting: Co-parenting is a dynamic process. Three types of co-parenting emerged from the interviewees’ stories, including cooperation type, cooperation-resistance mix type, and incompatible resistance type. Co-parenting did not happen naturally between divorced parents. It was rather a learning process. An inevitable opportunity in which parents learned to put their children’s well-being before them, and shifted toward a positive persective about co-parenting. Though every parent had to do this at their own pace. 2.Four factors emerged from the data that might affect the co-parenting process: Prior life experiences, the dissolution of marriage in a legal versus a psychological sense, the attitude and belief toward co-parenting, and lastly the quality of the support system. These four factors supported divorced parents with a history of marital violence to overcome life crises. 3.Co-parenting for the well-being of the children: Whether marital violence became a hindrance for divorced parents or not, it was depended on the way parents interpreted the situation and the way they adapted and coped with it. Parents not only needed to practice being a parent and improve parenting skills. They also needed to learn to coordinate and collaborate with their divorced spouse. Cooperations between divorced parents helped everyone to move forward in life. Lastly, limitations and recommendations are discussed concerning this study and its fidnings.