配偶外遇之離婚女性的自我調適經驗

The self-adjustment experience of divorced women with spouses' affair.

錢姝君(Shu Chun-Chien)

指導教授 ： 鄔佩麗

國立臺灣師範大學/教育學院/教育心理與輔導學系/碩士(2017年)

https://doi.org/10.6345/NTNU202203178

摘要

本研究目的在探討配偶外遇之離婚女性的自我調適經驗，希望透過受訪者的生命敘說和研究者的詮釋來理解歷經配偶外遇並有離婚事實的女性的生活經驗，從中了解受訪者在此歷程中之掙扎與因應的方式。本研究以敘說研究法來做資料收集與分析，採用立意取樣，邀請到兩位受訪者分享其個人的生命故事並進行訪談。訪談大綱為半結構式，以利蒐集到經歷配偶外遇之離婚女性更豐厚的生命敘說。在訪談內容轉錄成逐字稿過程後，研究者與受訪者一同建構歷經配偶外遇之離婚女性的生命故事，以敘說研究法中的「整體－形式」來繪製生命故事圖，完成受訪者生命歷程的原型，並針對其生命故事進行分析。
本研究發現歷經配偶外遇之離婚女性受到以下諸項影響，茲說明如下：（1）婚姻受阻事件對自我界定的衝擊與改變；（2）事件重整與社會網路的連結；（3）個人價值體系影響因應方式；（4）對婚姻體系與價值的重新認知。
另外，歷經配偶外遇之離婚女性的自我調適經驗如下：（1）接受生命的轉變與事件處理；（2）整理事件脈絡與轉化經驗；（3）安頓與穩定生活所需；（4）重拾希望與建立目標；（5）保有對生命經驗的彈性。
最後，研究者呈現個人省思，並根據上述研究結果針對助人專業工作者、相同遭遇的女性，以及未來研究提出建議。

關鍵字

外遇 ； 離婚 ； 敘說 ； 自我調適

並列摘要

This study aims at investigating the life experience and self-adjustment of divorced women who experienced their spouses’ affair. Based on the participants’ narratives and the researcher’s interpretation, the purpose of this study is to comprehend the life experience of women who experienced their spouses’ affair and divorce, through which the researcher understood how the participants struggled and dealt with those encounters throughout the process.
This study adopted the narrative research method to collect and analyze the life experience. With purposive sampling, the researcher interviewed two participants who shared their life stories. The interview outline was semi-structured so as to collect richer life narratives from divorced women who experienced their spouses’ affair. After finishing the transcript, the researcher and the participants constructed the narrative stories of divorced women experiencing their spouses’ affair, and then they drew life story pictures with the “holistic-form” method. After the participants’ life process prototypes were constructed, their life narratives were analyzed.
The influences of the life experience on the divorced women with spouse’s affair are as follows: (1) the event had an impact on their self-definition; (2) the event reorganized their connections to the social network; (3) their personal value systems affected how they cope with the event; (4) their thoughts about the marriage system and its value changed.
In addition, the self-adjustment that the divorced women with spouse’s affair are as follows: (1) they accepted changes in life and were willing to deal with events; (2) they organized the event contexts and transformed their experience; (3) they settled and lived a stable life; (4) they regained hope and set goals; (5) they became flexible to life experience.
Finally, the researcher presented personal reflections and made suggestions for women with the same encounter and future research based on the research findings of this study.

並列關鍵字

affair ； divorce ； narration ； self-adjustment

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中文部分

王以仁（2010）。婚姻與家庭：配偶及家人間的溝通和調適。台北：心理出版社股

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