Resulted their nature essence differences and nurture learning disibilities, students with autism、intellectual disabilities、emotional or behavioral disorders in resource room problem of junior high school lack of interaction between human beings, appearance to low performance and be excluded by peers. To benefit in inclusive education,students must be taought to use social interaction skills well. Researches before focused on one type of students as direct instruction of social skills. This article will focus on three types of the students and use the teaching spirit of experiential education to arrange the courses of social skills and experiential activities,then propose the problem of action research.Finally check the suppose with grounded theory,then put forward scientific principles.