《徵婚啟事》兩性關係研究

The Study of the Relations between the Sexes in "Spouse-Seeking notice"

唐瑞霞(Jui-Hsia Tang) ； 傅佩琍(Pei-Li Fu)

《育達科大學報》 30期 (2012/03) Pp. 181-205

https://doi.org/10.7074/YDAJB.201203.0181

摘要

陳玉慧《徵婚啟事》於一九九二年初版以來，文本最被關注的焦點在於「寂寞」這個主題著實打動了諸多讀者的心。然而，令筆者更有興味的卻是書中人物間彼此疏離的生命情境：無論是徵婚者或應徵者，彼此原有的疏離生命情境在渴求婚媾為前提的相遇中，最終依舊以疏離收場而分道揚鑣。本論文從探討敘述者徵婚的誠意談起，分析敘述者雖然刊登了徵婚啟事，然卻尚未對「結婚」這個人生大事做好準備；接著，擬從應徵者的心態析論文本中應徵者之所以婚姻不順、婚姻未遂，實與自身既有之疏離生命情境有莫大關係；最後，筆者認為實須從正視自身之所從來做起，方能確切知悉自身真正的需求，亦才能真正建構一場成功的婚姻關係。

關鍵字

陳玉慧 ； 徵婚啟事 ； 疏離 ； 兩性關係 ； 寂寞

並列摘要

Chen Yu-hui' Spouse-Seeking Notice has been printed in 1992. The focus in this essay, loneliness, has touched many readers' hearts. However, what interested me more was the alienation in lives among the characters in the book, whether the marriage seeker or the applicants. They all have alienated life situations, met in the premise of marriage, and live their own separated lives as a result of divorce. This essay intends to discuss from the sincerity of this marriage seeker. Although posted a spouse-seeking notice, the marriage seeker has not been prepared for marriage yet. And then, this essay intends to analyze the different types of motivation of the applicants. The reason for unhappy marriage is strongly related to the characters' own alienation in life. Last, I think a successful marriage truly constructs upon the base of seeing one's self and knowing the true need of one's self.

並列關鍵字

Chen Yu-hui ； spouse-seeking notice ； alienation ； relations between sexes ； loneliness

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