This paper tried to use Anthropology methods. Based on love, Job and death point of views to discuss "A Girl Like Me" which is wrote by XiXi. There are three conclusions as below:1. Due to the undertaker, this job is close to the things, which are related to death. Because of this job, love and death are coexistence and mutually exclusive in the life of heroine. 2. Due to the job of undertaker is related to the death, the heroine was crowd out by the people. 3. All of things are linked to the death. These are the imagining from the people was afraid and resist dying in the society.