Since the Taiwan government deregulated family visits to Mainland China in 1987, the thriving cross-strait exchanges of more than 20 years have brought hidden invisible divides to the surface. Each side has gradually seen and noticed the opposite side-the other-as a real subject, instead of being a virtual image of ”us compatriots,” shaped by the government's propaganda. People of either side have built from the mirror reflection a ”we-feeling” as opposed to the ”others.” In cross-strait social exchanges and interactions, all participants have been put in a dilemma between situational identity and personal identity and must go through a process of confirming self- identity in the other's eye. Identity has been a core issue in cross-strait social exchanges and interactions, and many Taiwan people are still in the process of identity fragmentation and integration, or fragmengration, of self and the rebuilding of others.