以敘事分析法探討成年女性親密與孤獨的心理應用

Exploring the Psychological Application of Intimacy and Solitude of Adult Women by Narrative Analysis

李文和(Lee Wen- Ho)

《人文社會電子學報》 15卷2期 (2019/09) Pp. 1-24

摘要

以女性的心理應用，呈現親密是瞭解對方，孤獨是瞭解自己，在通往親密關係的驅道中，不親密的事情是有可能發生的，如何以孤獨的方式來化解？如何以親密的方式瞭解對方？來做到更好的親密關係；本研究採用叙事分析法，以拉勃夫的敘事結構進行《親密與孤獨》分析，充實研究之效果；研究結果為女性親密與孤獨的心理思維包括性自主：只有女性自己知到真正想要的是親密？還是想要孤獨？內隱心理：女性對人際親密與孤獨的心理感受，希望各有屬於自己的空間，並能享受內在的孤獨；自我慾望：慾望是在表達內心的語言，是甜美和極具吸引力，女性自我的性慾都出自於內心的渴望，即使在孤獨之際，性慾的需求一樣是需要溫暖、需要被愛、需要被理解；結論是現代的社會，通訊網路發達，社交網站應可以適時迎合人際關係和親密關係的建構，可是，社會環境和生活壓力卻有時影響到親密關係，此時，如果通過孤獨，經過短暫的沉靜、省思，或許能夠重建親密，對於增進親密關係實在是有助益；建議社工團體和婦女團體可開設親密與孤獨的課程，提供女性遇到負面情感時，學習孤獨與實踐孤獨。

關鍵字

孤獨 ； 慾望 ； 親密

並列摘要

Being intimate with a woman's Psychological application is to understand other person involved, and solitude is to understand oneself, in the driveway to intimate relationships, things that are not intimate are likely to happen, how to solve it in a solitude way? how to understand other person involved in an intimate way? to achieve better intimacy.This study uses narrative analysis to analyze the intimacy and loneliness of Rabov's narrative structure, the effect of the research is enriched.The result of the study is that women's intimate and solitude psychological thinking includes sexual autonomy: Only women themselves know that what they really want is intimacy? still want to be solitude ? implicit psychology: Women's psychological feelings about interpersonal intimacy and solitude, hoping to have their own space and enjoy inner solitude.self-desire: Desire is the expression of inner language,it's sweet and attractive, and female self-sexual desire comes from inner longing,even in solitude, the demand for sexual desire needs to be warm, needs to be loved, needs to be understanding.The conclusion is that modern society, communication network is developed, and social networking sites should be able to cater to the construction of interpersonal relationships and intimate relationships in a timely manner, however, the social environment and life pressure sometimes affect intimate relationships, at this time, if passing the solitude , after a brief silence and pondering, may be able to rebuild intimacy, which is really helpful for enhancing intimate relationships. Suggestion: It is recommended that social work groups and women's groups can offer intimate and solitude courses to provide women to learn solitude and practice solitude when they experience negative emotions.

並列關鍵字

desire ； intimacy ； solitude