軍人伴侶成人依附風格、獨處能力與親密關係品質相關之研究

The study of the relationships among the adult attachment style, the capacity to be alone, and the intimacy quality of the military couples

陸馨穎(Hsin-Ying Lu)

指導教授 ： 宋鴻燕

淡江大學/教育學院/教育心理與諮商研究所碩士班/碩士(2020年)

https://doi.org/10.6846/TKU.2020.00332

摘要

本研究目的探討不同背景變項之軍人伴侶在成人依附風格、獨處能力與親密關係品質之間的差異與相關情形。本研究採用問卷調查法，以台灣地區各縣市依兵役法或其他法律服現役的軍官、士官及士兵與之為穩定交往的伴侶關係為研究對象，藉由立意取樣及滾雪球取樣的方式，抽取研究對象共323人。主要研究工具包含「成人依附風格」、「獨處能力」、「親密關係品質」。調查所得資料，以描述統計、獨立t檢定、變異數分析、皮爾森績差相關等統計方式進行分析處理，研究結果如下：以同為軍職的伴侶作為研究對象時，依據性別來做分類，我們發現在成人依附風格、獨處能力與親密關係品質的數據出現顯著差異：女性出現焦慮依附型態、排除依附型態之徵狀的比例顯著高於男性；男性在獨處能力上較女性佳；男性在親密關係品質上較女性佳。以同為軍職的伴侶作為研究對象時，依據身分來做分類，我們發現在成人依附風格、獨處能力與親密關係品質的數據出現顯著差異：排除依附型的非軍職伴侶高於排除依附型的軍職伴侶；軍職伴侶在獨處能力較非軍職伴侶佳；軍職伴侶在親密關係品質較非軍職伴侶身分佳。不同成人依附類型的軍人伴侶在獨處能力與親密關係品質皆出現顯著差異，排除依附型的軍人伴侶獨處能力較佳；安全依附型的軍人伴侶在親密關係品質中滿意/成長較高；排除依附型的軍人伴侶在親密關品質中衝突/矛盾較高。軍人伴侶獨處能力與親密關係品質之間呈現顯著正相關，也就是說，獨處能力愈強的軍人伴侶，感受到的親密關係品質愈高。基於本研究的發現，軍人伴侶在親密關係中的處境不同於一般成人，軍人身分的特殊性在經營親密關係時，需考量伴侶的依附風格，未來研究的建議將可同時訪談軍人與其伴侶，深入了解軍人伴侶的親密關係品質。

關鍵字

成人依附風格 ； 獨處能力 ； 親密關係品質

並列摘要

The purpose of this study was to discuss the issues and the differences between the relationships among adult attachment style, the capacity to be alone, and the quality of the intimate relationship in the military couples with different background. This study recruited a total of 323 samples collected by purposive sampling and snowball sampling with those who were in a relationship with the officers, sergeants, or soldiers on active duty as research participants. This study adapted a method of questionnaires which contained a package of scales naming Adult Attachment Style, the Capacity to be Alone, the Quality of the Intimate Relationship. The main variables of this study were adult attachment style, the capacity to be alone, and the quality of the intimate relationship. The data were statistically analyzed by descriptive statistics, independent samples t-tests, ANOVAs and Pearson product-moment correlation. The main findings were discussed as follows. First, for the couples in the military, there were significant gender differences on the interpersonal attachment styles, the ability to cope with solitude and the quality of intimate relationships. Specifically, females were rated higher in anxious-ambivalent attachment or dismissing attachment than males whereas males were rated a better ability to cope with solitude. Moreover, males perceived better intimate relationship quality than females. Second, for the couples of a non-military person and a military person, being in the military or not made a significant difference in the attachment styles, the ability cope with solitude, and the quality of intimate relationships. The non-military persons were rated higher in the dismissing attachment. The ones in the military exhibited a better ability to cope with solitude and also with a better intimate relationship than the non-military ones. Third, for the couples who were both in the military, there were significant differences in the ability to cope with solitude and the quality of intimate relationships. The military couple with dismissing attachment had a better ability to cope with solitude. The military couple with secure attachment perceived a higher satisfactory/growth rate in the intimate relationships. The military couple with dismissing attachment confronted with more conflicts/contradictions in the intimate relationships. Forth, there was a significant positive correlation between the ability to cope with solitude and the quality of intimate relationship for the military couples. In other words, the more the ability to cope with solitude, the more the quality of intimate relationship perceived. Based on the research findings, the situation in the intimate relationship of the military couples was not as the normal adults, the uniqueness of military background led them to consider the attachment style of their partner as establish their intimate relationship. It has suggested to interview the on-duty military and their couples for further the understanding of the quality of their intimate relationship for the future research.

並列關鍵字

Adult attachment style ； the capacity to be alone ； the quality of the intimate relationship

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