婚姻使用非暴力溝通與親密情感、幸福感關係之探討

The Use of Non-violent Communication in the Marriage and the Relationship between Intimacy and Well-being.

楊鼎宇(Ting-Yu Yang)

指導教授 ： 鍾昆原

高雄醫學大學/人文社會科學院/心理學系碩士班/碩士(2020年)

摘要

近年非暴力溝通開始被運用在各種不同領域，為了解非暴力溝通的內涵及運用在華人婚姻中的效果，本研究旨在發展適用婚姻情境之非暴力溝通量表，據此探討婚姻中非暴力溝通對親密情感、幸福感的關係。為兼顧非暴力溝通內涵與貼近實際婚姻情境，研究先以訪談方式聚焦常見婚姻問題，並結合非暴力溝通理論，透過嚴謹的編制與檢驗自編「非暴力溝通婚姻情境量表」，加上「親密情感量表」與「幸福感量表」共三分量表，透過網路問卷調查法以方便取樣施測，共計收到有效樣本406人，其中220人做為預試樣本，正試有效樣本為186人。在信效度檢驗上，自編非暴力溝通量表與分量表的內部一至性介於.73至.80之間，與婚姻溝通量表之效標關聯效度在.20至.25之間，均達顯著相關。結果顯示：一、親密情感在非暴力溝通對幸福感的影響上具有中介效果，表示婚姻中的雙方使用非暴力溝通會先提升親密情感，進而增加幸福感；二、在非暴力溝通中同理他人傾向較高者能帶來較好的親密情感及幸福感，而自我同理傾向高者則會對親密情感產生正向影響；三、使用非暴力請求者在非暴力溝通、親密情感與幸福感上都有較好的表現。最後亦針對研究結果進行討論與建議，做為未來研究參考。

關鍵字

非暴力溝通 ； 同理心 ； 親密情感 ； 幸福感

並列摘要

In recent years, Non-violent communication have been used in various fields. For understanding the mechanisms of non-violent communication and the effect of actual use in Chinese marriage situations. The purpose of this study intended to develop a marital non-violent communication scale, and to investigate the relationships among the married person’s marital non-violent communication, intimacy and well-being. In order to balance the connotation of non-violent communication with the actual marriage situation, this research focuses on common marital problems through interviews, combined with non-violent communication theory. This study was completed by online questionnaire；that is, Marital Non-violent Communication Scale, Chinese Marital Affection, Well-being Scale. 406 valid results were received through convenience sampling, they were randomly assigned to the size 220 and 186 for pre-test and formal test. The internal consistency of each subscale in self-developed non-violent communication is between .73 ~ .80, and the correlation validity with the marital communication scale is between .20 ~ .25, which indicate significant positive correlations. The conclusions of this study show as follows：In the research of prediction from non-violent communication to intimacy and well-being, it was found that：1. The relationship between non-violent communication and well-being is mediated by intimacy. 2. In non-violent communication, those with higher tendency to empathize with others can bring better intimacy and well-being, while those with higher self-empathy tend to have a positive impact on intimacy. 3. Non-violent requesters have good performance in non-violent communication, intimacy and well-being. Based on the results, the researcher came up with some suggestions and discussions for further research.

並列關鍵字

non-violent communication ； empathy ； intimacy ； well-being

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