病重父親與年幼子女的親子互動之研究

A study on seriously ill father and young child’s parent-child interaction

謝巧芬(Hsieh Chiao Fen)

指導教授 ： 何慧敏

國立臺灣師範大學/教育學院/人類發展與家庭學系/碩士(2010年)

摘要

本研究旨在瞭解病重父親在罹患重症後，個人思想觀念的改變，並探究病重父親與其幼兒的親子互動，及此互動經驗對其個人之意義，進而探討影響病重父親親子互動的可能因素。為達上述研究目的，本研究採取質性研究法之半結構式訪談法進行。
本研究的研究對象為一位罹患肺癌、且接受過化療的父親--樂爸，育有一個三歲兒子。自2007年9月至2008年1月期間，研究者對樂爸共進行六次深度訪談。本研究的主要結論如下：
一、樂爸生病前與兒子的親子關係為生疏。
二、重病為親子互動的轉折點:
1. 學會放下、珍惜生命、感恩，並樂觀抗癌。
2. 親子互動由生疏轉為親密，透過陪伴、照顧、行為管教、心靈互動等方式與兒子互動。
3. 常處於愛的教育與體罰之間的矛盾。
4、遺財與遺德的矛盾
三、親子互動帶來成就感，完成傳宗接代使命。
四、樂爸受父親的影響深遠。
五、樂爸在親子互動中經歷第二次的童年。
本研究根據以上結果提出建議，作為為人父親者與未來研究之參考。

關鍵字

病重父親 ； 親子互動 ； 幼兒

並列摘要

The main purpose of this study is to explore the change of a father in his individual thoughts, the parent-child interactions with his son, and the meaning of the interactions for him after he was attacked by cancer. This study also explores, in the meanwhile, the possible factors that influence the interactions. To achieve the above purpose, this study adopts the semi-structured interview method of qualitative research.

The subject of this study “Happy Dad” is a father who suffers from lung cancer and received chemotherapy. He has a three-year old son. From September 2007 to January 2008, the researcher conducted six depth interviews with Happy Dad.

The main conclusions of this study are as follows:
1. Before “Happy Dad” was sick, his relationship with son was not familiar.
2. Serious illness acts as a turning point for the parent-child interactions:
(1) “Happy Dad” learns to “put down” everything, cherishes his life, grateful to others, and to fight up against cancer with optimism.
(2) Parent-child interactions transfer from not familiar to close, through companionship, care, discipline, and spiritual interaction.
(3) “Happy Dad” is always in conflict between “love education” and corporal punishment.
(4) “Happy Dad” has trouble deciding between “leaving wealth” or “leaving morality” to leave to his son.
3. The parent-child interactions bring the sense of achievement to “Happy Dad” and “Happy Dad” has completed the mission to have a son to carry on the family name.
4. The father of “Happy Dad” has tremendous influence on “Happy Dad”.
5. “Happy Dad” experiences a second childhood during the parent-child interactions with his son.

Suggestions are made according to the results shown above for all fathers and future studies.

並列關鍵字

seriously ill father ； parent-child interaction ； young child

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