The purpose of this study is to find out the relationship between relationship marketing and customers' disclosing intimacy in VIP wealth management service employees. The research group is for the VIP wealth management service employees. 305 of total effective surveys were returned. The effective returns-ratio is 87.14%. After returning the questionnaires, we examines it by the descriptive statistics analysis, the Cronbach's α reliability analysis, the correlation analysis, the linear structure relation analysis, hierarchical regression analysis.The results show that the relationship marketing (two-way communications, face-to-face contacts and listening three constructions surface) and the customers' disclosing intimacy has to the influence. We also discuss the implications of these results for future on relationship marketing and customers' disclosing intimacy.