This study proposes some essential and core attitudes of terminal bedside volunteers, who go beyond the helper's role and enter a extraordinary life situation-the dying process of the other. Somehow they sense the necessarity of deconstruction of ordinary life pattern, and give up the hope of helping someone, and turn into an ethics of strangers; this is a kind of pre-original ethics, not constructed form the interpersonal network, nothing to do with the order of practical ethics, thus the terminal bedside careers have to give up any expectation as expectation, and regard helplessness and weakness as the powerful will. These attitudes seem to be antimony to ordinary life.