衝突之下，原來有愛──運用EFFT於青少年之親子會談

There is love behind the conflict- Teenager's child- parent counseling by Emotional Focused Family Therapy

陳姝蓉(Shu-Jung Chen) ； 王韋琇(Wei-Hsiu Wang) ； 李冠瑩(Guan-Ying Lee)

《中華團體心理治療》 22卷4期 (2016/12) Pp. 23-36

摘要

情緒取向家族治療(EFFT)，乃是以情緒取向治療之理論與治療策略為基礎，應用於處遇家庭重要關係議題上，如親子衝突。EFFT的治療師以依附理論的眼光，解讀青少年的反叛與衝突行為，多半因為其內在於渴望發展獨立自主的個體性，以及與父母保持良好依附與情感連結的過程中，無法找到平衡點。而家庭系統參與其中，往往以指責或限制的方式，應對青少年的言行，產生負向互動循環。此時，治療目標在於停止負向互動循環、減低衝突情境，並重新建立安全的依附關係'以及正向情感連結。治療後的改變，可幫助父母與青少年較能運用家庭系統中原有的資源與安全依附基礎，應對青少年本身發展階段的任務，以及家庭結構的變動。本文目的在於介紹EFFT之理論及治療模式，透過案例的個案概念化呼應此治療模式，並分享實務運用之心得，發現運用EFFT確實能降低親子衝突的強度，並幫助彼此瞭解對方於親子關係中的渴望與期待，進而調整親子互動模式，滿足彼此的依附需求。期望透過此文能在提供實務工作者，面對家庭處遇時，能有不同的理解觀點與策略選擇。

關鍵字

情緒取向家族治療 ； 親子衝突 ； 青少年

並列摘要

Emotional Focused Family therapy (EFFT) used the strategies which based on Emotional Focused Therapy Theory on dealing with important family issues as child-parent conflict. With an attachment lens, EFFT therapists see the conflict and conduct behaviors of teenagers as their needs of developing autonomy and keep good attachment and emotion connect with their parents are imbalance.If families interact with the teenager by the way of blaming or setting limitation, it grows into a negative interaction cycle between families and the teenager. The therapeutic goals are set up to stop the negative interaction cycle, reduce conflict situation, rebuild safety attachment relationship and positive emotion connect. These changes after treatment will help parents and teenagers can make good use of their own resources and the safety attachment base to cope their developmental tasks and the changes of family structures. This article aims to introduce EFFT of theory and therapy mode. Cases conceptualization echoes on this mode of treatment, and to share ideas practical use, The experiences of using EFFT can indeed reduce the strength of the parent-child conflict, and to help each other understand their desire and anticipation in the parent-child relationship, and then adjust the parent-child interaction to meet the needs of attachment. We hope that through this article can provide practitioners different views and strategy to chose when facing of the family.

並列關鍵字

Emotional Focused Family Therapy (EFFT) ； child-parent conflict ； teenager

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