靈性融入性諮商對中年女性親密關係影響之研究：以PLISSIT為諮商技術

A Study on the Intimate Relationship of Middle- Aged Women With Spiritual Integration in Sexuality Counseling: PLISSIT as a Counseling Technique

黃群雅(Chun-Ya Huang) ； 陳國彥(Kuo-Yen Chen)

《性學研究》 10卷1期 (2019/07) Pp. 75-99

https://doi.org/10.6206/SIS.201907_10(1).0004

摘要

本研究旨在運用靈性融入性諮商讓現代人類及具有靈性層面的人，在面臨困難、挫折或是壓力時，都能夠獲得協助；本研究採用定性方法研究，研究對象為六位40～55歲中年已婚女性，運用整體心理學之靈性（靜坐）與性諮商之PLISSIT模型做為輔導治療方式，分三個月三階段實施靜坐療法，每週三次，每次兩小時以促進受試者親密關係重建；使用深入和半結構式的訪談，持續直到數據飽和，形成逐字稿後，進行資料分析與概念化分析。研究成果：溝通是婚姻關係與親密關係的橋樑，是建立親密關係的要素之一，夫妻之間需要彼此的瞭解、包容、接納，並發展正念能量，如此，才能對親密關係有所助益。建議：中年女性應在靈性（靜坐）中察覺自我，認識自己；中年男性和其他年齡層的男、女性也應同樣地通過靈性（靜坐）之省思；社會諮商單位需要適時運用靈性技能介入諮商輔導。結論：運用靜坐和PLISSIT模型輔導治療經歷親密關係重建，靜坐練習與正念相關聯，以及增進個人信念與正念能力，在維持親密關係和總體福祉的背景下作用具有重要意義。

關鍵字

中年女性 ； 靈性 ； 親密關係

並列摘要

This study aimed to apply spiritual integration to sexuality counseling to allow modern humans or people with spiritual dimensions to be assisted in the face of difficulties, frustrations, or stress. This study used qualitative methods and was conducted on 6 married women aged 40-55, using the theory of integrated psychology (meditation practice) and the PLISSIT model of sexuality counseling as treatment. Meditation practice was performed in three phases of three months (three times every week, two hours each time) to reconstruct the intimate relationships of participants. Using in-depth and semi-structured interviews, verbatim draft was formed after data saturation. Relevant data analysis and conceptual analysis were then carried out. Results: Communication is a bridge between marriage and intimacy; it is one of the elements of the system to establish close relationships. Couples need to understand, tolerate, accept, and develop mindfulness energy, in order to maintain intimate relationships. Suggestions: Middle-aged women should perceive themselves and know themselves through spirituality (meditation practice). Middle-aged men, and people of other ages, should also think and evaluate themselves through spirituality (meditation practice). Social consultancy organisations should apply spiritual skills to counseling at the right time. Conclusion: From the process of using meditation and PLISSIT model as treatment to facilitate intimate relationship reconstruction, meditation exercises were found to associate with mindfulness. Moreover, the ability to enhance personal beliefs and mindfulness is important in the context of maintaining intimate relationships and overall well-being.

並列關鍵字

Middle-Aged Women ； Spiritual ； Intimate Relationship

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