With the advent of the era of moderate aging in China, the experience evaluation of the elderly groups and their families regarding the elderly service products has become particularly important, and at the same time, the main experience feeling has also become an important reference index for the development of the elderly industry. This paper is based on the background of the general environment of active population aging through literature research, market research, rooted interviews, and other methods and combined with relevant data from the seventh census of China. This paper is an in‐depth analysis of the current situation and problems in the development of the elderly industry and economy and summarises the basic design strategies for the elderly in the era of active aging based on the actual needs of the elderly groups at this stage, namely co-building; co‐governance; and sharing. It provides an initial theoretical framework for the future iterative development of relevant elderly economic industries and the innovation of elderly products, thus promoting the high‐quality and sustainable development of the elderly business industry.